It is extremely important for God's people to meet together.
Matthew 18:20 (ESV)
For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them.
Hebrews 10:24-25 (ESV)
And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works,
not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another,
and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.
These groups do not need to be very big, in fact, smaller groups are much more
effective at enabling people to encourage each other. In a large group, it is far too
easy to become a spectator, contributing nothing and receiving little.
In a small group, you can get to know everyone and become like an extended family.
Everything you do can be specific to the needs of those within the group, whether study,
discussion, having meals together or anything else the group agrees to do. In a small
group, specific needs of individuals can be addressed. You can know where everyone is up
to and how they are going. You can encourage each other in hard times. You can celebrate
successes.
The Christian life is not meant to be lived in isolation. We were created by God to have
fellowship with Him and also with each other. God wants to relate to us like a loving father
with his children. If we grew up in a loving family we will be able to relate to this. If we
grew up in a non loving family, then this will be a foreign concept. God wants our own
families to be loving so our children can understand how God wants to treat us.
Galatians 6:2 (ESV)
Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.
Traditional Small Groups
Traditionally, small groups within the context of the church have been Bible Study
groups, Connect Groups, Cell Groups and lots of other things. These groups have usually
been associated with churches. There have also been people separating form the
traditional churches to form micro churches. Many of these micro churches have failed
because they have been based on rebellion against the church.
If you are already in a traditional small group that is working well, it may be a good
idea to stay in that group. If you feel led to contribute to a newly formed small group,
do that as well.
Awakening Small Groups
In a period of awakening, where there are not enough existing churches to cater for
all the new believers, small groups in the form of micro churches will need to spring up
everywhere to support all these new believers. If such small groups have had a history
of failure in the past, why would they work in an awakening?
Creating a Small Group
A group should have a leader who has been a believer for some time. See I Timothy
3:1-7 for some qualifications for overseers. The most important qualification must be
humility. The leader must direct people to follow Jesus, not himself or herself. The
leader must also not condemn the churches and realise the reason for this group is that
there are insufficient churches to support all the new believers of the awakening. If
the leader can do all this, then the group will not fail as many micro churches in the
past have failed.
What Does a Small Group Look Like
A small group is a small group, obviously. It should have 8 to 15 people
who meet together regularly to help each other grow in their faith. It should involve
interactive activities. It should NOT be a teaching session, like a miniature church,
except for a limited time if a special need arises. It does not need to follow a fixed
format. Possible activities are:
- having meals together
- interactive Bible study
- sharing of testimonies
- prayer time
- helping with specific problems of group members
At the moment, 15 is a good maximum size, but when awakening hits, this limit may need
to be revised.
Types of Small Group
During an awakening where people are coming to Jesus regularly, there needs to be two
types of group:
Beginners Group
A group or groups where new believers can learn the basics of their new life. These
groups should take the form of interactive Bible studies where the new believers not only
learn about this new life but discuss their own experiences, successes and failures.
In some circumstances, these groups may need to be teaching sessions. If so, then
these sessions should be as interactive as possible, like tutorial groups.
Leaders Group
Outside an awakening, this would just be an advanced group but during an awakening,
most people who are not beginners will need to be leaders. In these groups, people who
have learned the basics and are living them can meet with other followers of Jesus to
encourage each other and keep each other on track. These groups can also spend time in
strategic prayer, study the Bible, share testimonies. Like the beginners, they should
also share successes and failures.
The leader of this group is a leader of leaders. It is important the leader of this
group meets the requirements of I Timothy 3:1-7. He must not only lead the members of
this group to follow Jesus rather than himself or herself but must also encourage
those in the group who are leading beginner groups to do the same.
Jesus' Example
The Last Supper was a final meal Jesus had with His disciples before He was crucified.
That meeting is presumably used as a model for communion services held in many churches
now. There was a lot more to that meeting than just communion. It was an intimate meeting
with twelve people He had spent three years with. He knew each one of them personally.
They were His leaders of leaders. When He returned to Heaven, these were the people He
left in charge. This is a great model for a small group.
In Luke 10:1-12, Jesus commissioned seventy two people as apostles and sent them out
ahead of Him. They were all apostles, sent ones or leaders, but they were not leaders
of leaders, at that time, like His own twelve. Many, like the apostle Paul went on to
become leaders of leaders. Many now, who have no intention of ever becoming a leader may
grow up to become a leader of leaders in the time ahead.
At the Last Supper, Peter said three times he would never leave Jesus. Later
that night, Peter did desert Jesus. After Jesus rose from the dead, Jesus dealt lovingly
with Peter's betrayal. Jesus knew Peter better than Peter knew himself. This is an example
of the sort of help that can be given to individuals in a small group where everyone knows
each other well. Peter did the wrong thing. Jesus did not condemn him, He just helped him
to get back on track. Peter did not come to Jesus for counseling. Jesus took the
initiative. This kind of help will needs the intimacy of a small group.